DespiteNicola’s hope of showingMeishahis romantic side, this weekend’s latest90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Daysseduction scene devolves into a big mess.
In PEOPLE’s exclusive sneak peek at Sunday’s episode, Nicola and Meisha try out some hands-on therapy, rubbing Dead Sea mud on each other.
Nicola says he hopes his girlfriend will “never forget” the experience — and she responds, “Well, that’s the understatement of the century.”
Nicola and Meisha on ‘90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days’.TLC

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After adjusting positions, she reminds him to be “gentle,” adding, “not caveman-style.” When he continues to slap mud on her, she says, “Whoa, can you try not to be a barbarian?”
She adds, “I don’t think that he’s quite feeling comfortable and in his element, nor do I think that he really knows maybe what to do.”

Meisha tries to gently guide Nicola to a more sensual technique as she applies mud to his skin and asks, “So the way that I’m putting this on you, do you want to put it on me again anywhere?”
While Nicola believes he is becoming “more passionate,” Meisha knows he has a lot to learn.
“I have so much grace for you because I actually understand you," she tells him, “and I understand where you’ve been, but because you’re a virgin, I also want you to feel free to come to me and ask me questions on like the sexual stuff … I just don’t want you to ever feel embarrassed about something like, ‘Well, I wouldn’t know how to do that.'”

But Nicola isn’t convinced he needs any help
“I know what is woman," he insists. “I know how woman operate. I know everything but everything has to come in the right time.”
Meisha responds, “You can’t fully know how women operate because that would just be impossible.”
But, he counters, “I live in the world.”
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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Daysairs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET on TLC.
source: people.com